My buddy a href="http://www.theattractionforums.com/member.php?u=138553"Arcad/a on a href="http://www.theattractionforums.com/"The Attraction Forums/a sent me this creepy article about love-triangle-becomes-murder, here:br /br /a href="http://insession.blogs.cnn.com/2010/07/21/teenage-love-triangle-turns-deadly/"http://insession.blogs.cnn.com/2010/07/21/teenage-love-triangle-turns-deadly//abr /br /Since I'm pretty sure the family and friends of the murdered woman don't read this blog (and I deserve to burn in hell if they do for just glossing through things like that), let's drift from this tragedy to a couple things about relationship dynamics.br /br /I'm going to guess that player Joshua here is a little bit insecure -- having a href="http://www.lovesystems.com/relationship-management"multiple simultaneous relationships with different women/a is just fine, and being honest with the women involved is great. But he forgot (or never learned) the Second Rule of Multiple Relationships - never throw it in her face. Sounds like he fell in love with the validation and attention from having multiple women competing over him...but that's not the way it's done. In a multiple relationship, each person has to feel special and that their needs are met. The women don't have to like each other or even meet each other, but they shouldn't be pitted against each other.br /br /(Facebook, etc., can make this hard. If you're going to date multiple women seriously, keep that off Facebook. Even if she's okay with it, her friends will make it unbearable for her.)br /br /a href="http://www.lovesystems.com/audio/vol-24-jealousy-plotlines-tenmagnet-braddock-cajun"Jealousy Plotlines/a are not for relationships. Creating a span style="font-weight: bold;"jealousy plotline/span is an advanced technique, and useful for solidifying attraction in the first meeting. Say you meet a cutie at your friend's party. Everyone else is hitting on her too. Once you've got her attention a bit, don't stay in "competing for you vs. all these other guys" mode - go talk to other women. You'll set yourself apart by being the guy who is willing to walk away, who is a challenge, etc. And when she sees another attractive woman enjoying your company while she's talking to Mr Nice Guy With All His Boring Questions, that turns her mind from "that was a nice conversation" to "I need more of that guy". That's advanced attraction stuff, and for another post.br /br /But, before we go...what's the deal with a 19 year old who is facing spending the next 20-odd years (I assume) in jail having as a major priority her ability to wear makeup in court? I hope this is something lawyer dreamed up, thinking that her being well put together would make her more sympathetic for the jury, and not just her vanity.br /br /Or maybe the makeup is to cover up defensive wounds. Ouch.br /br /object classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="ep" height="374" width="416"param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"param name="wmode" value="transparent"param name="movie" value="http://i.cdn.turner.com/cnn/.element/apps/cvp/3.0/swf/cnn_416x234_embed.swf?context=embedamp;videoId=crime/2010/07/20/is.wade.court.makeup.insession"param name="bgcolor" value="#000000"embed src="http://i.cdn.turner.com/cnn/.element/apps/cvp/3.0/swf/cnn_416x234_embed.swf?context=embedamp;videoId=crime/2010/07/20/is.wade.court.makeup.insession" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" bgcolor="#000000" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" wmode="transparent" height="374" width="416"/embed/objectdiv class="blogger-post-footer"img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5610487329075072890-1466601429406460853?l=therealsavoy.blogspot.com' alt='' //divimg src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/therealsavoyls/~4/rPhEMyPxy6A" height="1" width="1"/
Jealousy Plotlines and Dating Multiple Women
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