LR: The Power of Intent
14 November 2007We’ve decided to start posting some of our thoughts, experiences and lay reports on the blog. Hopefully sharing our experiences will help others achieve their goals.
Lately I’ve really been focused on my intent when I go out. I’ve found the more specific you are with your goal going out, the more powerful your intent will be and the more likely it is that you will get what you want.
When I used to go out I would just say to myself “I’m going out tonight and I’m going to talk to a bunch of girls and hook up with at least one of them”. That was fine as I usually would get a number, a make out, and even sometimes a same day lay but mostly I’d be left with calling them for a day two. Over time I’d have a number list and groups of girls I could call at anytime which was OK.
Lately I’ve changed my intent to be “I’m going out tonight, all the girls want me, and I’m going to take the woman of my choice home and fuck her”. This statement is much more specific and much more powerful and causes your state and behavior to change so that nothing will stop you from getting what you want!
Take Sunday night for instance. It was a good friend’s birthday and we had plans to roll VIP to the club. Each of the guys in our group invited a bunch of girls so before even going out I already had it in my mind that “it’s on tonight!”
We met up with part of the group before hand for dinner so we could roll into the club as a group. When we got to the club there was a long line outside. We walked right up to the VIP line and several bouncers told us to follow them to our table.
When we walked in all heads in the club turned to us. We had bouncers parting the crowd so that we could get back to our private table. Girls were looking over giving us fuck me eyes and my state went through the roof knowing that it was on with every girl in the place!
I grabbed a free drink from the bottle service and wasted no time getting warmed up. I saw a very hot girl sitting in the booth behind us with one other young girl and an older woman (turned out to be her mom!). I busted in and started talking. I can’t even remember what I said but it didn’t matter. My state of mind was so intense it almost seemed like a blur like I was on autopilot with full intent to get what I WANT!
The group opened and all the girls were laughing and friendly, including the mom. The mom and “other girl” start talking so I immediately spin myself around and isolate my target. We get to chatting and she’s not drinking and being kind of boring but I know the attraction is there. I feel my state beginning to drop so I get her giggling and tell her I have to go dance.
On the way past our table I grab Justin and we start walking to the dance floor. We walk past two girls staring us down. I look back at Justin and he goes in and opens. I walk right in after and start talking to the friend. I will call her “Thick” because she was cute but kinda thick. Attraction was almost instant! The girl Justin was talking to was into him and “Thick” was into me.
Thick started to kind of scare me by how into me she was so I rolled off and turned to another group of girls near by. There were three girls walking by. The one that caught my eye was a tall blonde with beautiful blue eyes, huge fake breasts and kind of a blow up doll kinda of look! lol! I’ll call her MILF cause later on I found out she has a daughter.
I stepped in front of MILF to stop her from walking and asked her if she was the girl serving drinks at our table. I don’t know why, just the first thing that came to my head. It didn’t matter, I could feel my intent was strong and every aura of my being was sub-communicating my sexual intent and dominance.
Her eyes lit up and she smiled and we began to talk. I teased her a bunch, held hands, then told her I had to go dance. I made my way onto the dance floor to see what I could find. Justin was dancing with the girl from the group before and her friend “Thick” came up and started dancing on me. We danced for a bit, grinding and touching. When the song changed I turned around and started walking off the dance floor. Thick was on my trail following me towards the bar.
I see MILF staring at me with her beautiful blue eyes and I walked right up to her and started making out with her! I turned around and looked back at Thick, who had her mouth open jaw hitting the floor. She looks at me all pissed. I don’t care cause hey, I’m going for what I want, and besides girls do this to guys all the time! lmao!
MILF looks at me and says:
MILF: “I hope you don’t think your going to take me home tonight”
ME: “Ha, what makes you think you could take me home? I’m not that easy!”
MILF: “lol, I said that to a guy the other night and he walked away all mad”
Typical chode reaction. Take it all serious and get hurt by it. By now I’ve learned how to deflect these tests like a sex kitten pinball machine.
I spank her on the ass and start making out again. MILF goes to the bathroom so I start talking to other groups of girls. I see Justin in the VIP area by the dance floor dancing and talking to the DJ. I see MILF later staring at me, watching me bounce group to group, talking to other girls. I can see it’s eating her up inside. She’s used to guys chasing her, giving her validation. Not me and it was driving her crazy.
I started talking to a group of girls right next to the booth of the first hot girl that was with her mom. Out of the corner of my eye I could see her watching me talk to the other girls. I looked at her a few times and made some funny faces and she started to laugh. Suddenly out of no where MILF comes in and grabs me away from my new group of girls and starts kissing me. I look over my shoulder and the girl I was making faces at had the same expression Thick did earlier. Jealousy was running ramped in the club! lol
Anyway, I took MILF home with me later that night. The same girl who tested me by saying I couldn’t take her home not only came home with me, but called in sick the next day to ride me like she was in the MILF jockey olympics! Hooray for boobies!
The moral of this story is the power of intent. Going out I had no doubt that I was going to pull a girl home and fuck her that night. When I talked to girls it never even crossed my mind that they wouldn’t like me or that I’d get a bad reaction. I never rolled up and wondered what to say. Actually I don’t remember much of any of my conversations because my emotional state was so pumped! However, I do remember my actions and how I felt in every interaction. I felt powerful, dominate, and didn’t apologize for my sexual intentions.
Next time you go out make your intent as strong as possible. Know what you want and feel as if you’re going to get it no matter what and see what happens!
on November 14th, 2007 at 7:56 pm
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on November 14th, 2007 at 8:39 pm
Hey man, great stuff. gotta love the MILF action. My question is when you guys go out to these clubs, how much drinking do you guys do? I hear some PUAs say not to drink much or none at all. What is your opinion?
on November 14th, 2007 at 9:04 pm
Taz,
I personally enjoy drinking when I’m out and don’t see anything wrong with it. Some methods say not to drink because they are all about tactics. I don’t use tactics or methods, I’ve moved past that and into the “new wave” of pickup of changing who and how you are rather than using tactics and gambits.
With that said I think it’s important to practice picking up women sober so that you do not rely on alcohol as a crutch. I’ve had great pickups sober and amazing pickups drunk! As long as you’re having fun I think the decision is yours. If you’re asking was I drunk Sunday when this all happened my answer is HELL YEAH! lol!
-Jason
on November 24th, 2007 at 1:42 am
Hey guys, great site and posts.
I checked out one of your old videocasts and saw you guys were looking for someone to help out with video work. I don’t have any equipment anymore, but if you guys are still looking for someone to help you out in regards to that field hit me up on my e-mail.
I’m actually located in the OC, but go to SD often so shoot me an e-mail if you still need some help.
Cheers,
Yosh
on November 24th, 2007 at 6:34 pm
Hi all!
G’night
on November 25th, 2007 at 8:12 am
Hello
G’night
on December 2nd, 2007 at 11:38 am
I was skeptical when I first saw the title of this post on my rss feed. I was thinking about nights when I have gone out sarging looking to pickup women and remember nights when I had little to no success because my whole reason for being there was to hook up with someone. I unnoticably was subcommunicating neediness, and such is what I figured this post was going to some what reference to… Jason I underestimated you. Forgive me. This is a spot on example of what we are all trying to acheive EVERY day, pure domination of your inner game!
May the gods of PUA bless you as you have us;)
on March 28th, 2008 at 9:19 am
That’s not intent. That’s MANIA.
Look it up:
http://bipolar.about.com/cs/mania/ht/bl-ht-mania.htm